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How To Be MORE Positive!

How To Be MORE Positive!

“There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” — William Shakespeare

When something goes horribly wrong, our emotions hardly feel like a choice. It’s logical to feel upset, angry or guilty about a negative situation, so it only makes sense to react accordingly, right?

Not entirely. Research suggests that our happiness is more of a choice than purely influenced by circumstance. And as the Shakespeare quote above implies, the nature of our situations may just be determined by how we categorize them. In other words, a negative attitude may appear to be the logical reaction, but that doesn’t mean we have to adopt one.

It isn’t hard to be one of those people who looks on the bright side of life, but it might take some practice.

Practice Awareness!

The difference between those who see the positive over the negative also lies in their observations. Suprina says positive-minded individuals squash the ANTs, or automatic negative thoughts, as soon as they start to appear.

“Most negative thoughts aren’t conscious, we’re not even aware of them,” he explains. “Positive thinkers are aware of those messages they’re telling themselves and the direction they’re taking them. They don’t go down that rabbit hole of negativity — they catch it and reverse it around.”

Fed your positivity! The only way to expand any skill set is to build habits that reinforce that behavior — and that goes for positive thinking as well, Suprina says. In order to become a more positive person, he suggests doing activities that can help cultivate those emotions. Studies have shown that practices like meditation and journaling, as well as spending time with your friends and family, all have the ability to increase positive feelings. And positive feelings = positive thoughts.

Surround yourself with positive people!

Toxic situations are easily the biggest influencers on a negative mind. Research suggests that stress is indeed contagious — and the more you surround yourself with it, the more likely you are to let it affect your thoughts.

On the flip side, studies show that happiness is also catching. In order to maintain their sunny disposition, positive thinkers only surround themselves with people and things that will help that attitude flourish, Suprina says. And as a result, their lives are a whole lot brighter.

 

 

About The Author

Amira

Amira is a Canadian author, blogger and entrepreneur. She published her first novel 'Ecstasy' March 2014.

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